Day 132 - Accepting the Good

Why do so many of us have difficulty accepting the possibility of having everything we want in life?

I received an email that said this:

One day you write that your family is perfect and the next day they won’t clean their rooms! Lol. I guess they’re not perfect after all! I love your blog! XOXO

It got me to thinking – how do I explain to this reader and fan that it is all of these imperfections that make my life perfect?


Even imperfections like this one:

Why is it impossible for anyone in my family to put the toilet paper on the roll and throw the empty one away? What is the purpose of just stacking it on top?! Really? They know they are sitting there waiting for their business to be over – it doesn’t take 3 seconds to change the roll!

Okay, here, imagine it with me. The above picture – you are sitting on the toilet performing your business and you notice the paper needs changing – you grab a new roll – and now – 1 Mississippi – 2 Mississippi – 3 Mississippi – VOILA! The toilet paper is installed correctly! That wasn’t hard was it!? Grrrrrr!

And you know what? I still consider things like this imperfectly PERFECT in my life!

The Law of Attraction tells us that we always attract into our lives whatever we think about the most, believe in most strongly, expect on the deepest levels, and or imagine most vividly. When we are negative and fearful, insecure or anxious, we often attract the very experiences, situations, or people that we are seeking to avoid. If we are basically positive in attitude, expecting and envisioning pleasure, satisfaction, and happiness, we tend to attract and create people, situations, and events that conform to our positive expectations. I choose to think positively about the little idiosyncrasies that make up my crazy life. They make me crazy – but smile at the same time!

This is the ultimate point of my writing today – it is not about the material world and public status’ or the “have your people call my people” way of being – it is to make every moment of my life a moment of wondrous creation, in which I am just naturally choosing the best, the most beautiful, the most fulfilling life I can imagine…among the chaos.

This is why I write that my chaotic life and imperfect family are PERFECT – I choose to follow the flow of my own energy. (If you haven’t already noticed…)